my bling
Monday, June 16, 2008
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
爱自己
there's nothing wrong with being nice to yourself, and loving yourself...
however, it becomes a little twisted when in the process of loving yourself, u overlooked the necessity to look out for those around you.
being immerse in your own world, and talking about yourself all time...
yes we already know how good you are... aren't you interested in anything else?
yet, i wonder if it's the effect of wanting to be loved, that you can't get it from others, so these people tend to make it up by loving themselves more, thus the vicious cycle of allowing the whole world know how much you love yourself, and despising people who yearn to be love by others.
probably doesn't make sense...
but this person i know told me that," people need others to love them, because they don't love themselves..."
to me that's bullshit...
it may be the desirable respond to people who are desperately looking for a partner or soul mate...
but not what a pragmatic person like me would consider as an acceptable respond in any other circumstances. i can't stand people who are OVERLY idealistic... i think it's really just a crap load of shit... (just my humble opinion, please don't quote me otherwise)
then again, we're all different, and on the same note, please don't think that the others should conform to the norms that you hold on to so dearly with your life...
however, it becomes a little twisted when in the process of loving yourself, u overlooked the necessity to look out for those around you.
being immerse in your own world, and talking about yourself all time...
yes we already know how good you are... aren't you interested in anything else?
yet, i wonder if it's the effect of wanting to be loved, that you can't get it from others, so these people tend to make it up by loving themselves more, thus the vicious cycle of allowing the whole world know how much you love yourself, and despising people who yearn to be love by others.
probably doesn't make sense...
but this person i know told me that," people need others to love them, because they don't love themselves..."
to me that's bullshit...
it may be the desirable respond to people who are desperately looking for a partner or soul mate...
but not what a pragmatic person like me would consider as an acceptable respond in any other circumstances. i can't stand people who are OVERLY idealistic... i think it's really just a crap load of shit... (just my humble opinion, please don't quote me otherwise)
then again, we're all different, and on the same note, please don't think that the others should conform to the norms that you hold on to so dearly with your life...
说者无心，听者有意...
it's true how the tone of one's speech can be potentially fatal if not related appropriately to the person you are communicating with.
that's when a break down occur.
especially when one party has experienced the other party negatively before.
misinterpretation creeps in and become a feature of the conversation between the 2.
it's scary to see something like this happening right before your eyes and yet can do nothing about.
that's when a break down occur.
especially when one party has experienced the other party negatively before.
misinterpretation creeps in and become a feature of the conversation between the 2.
it's scary to see something like this happening right before your eyes and yet can do nothing about.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
an opportunity
only i didn't make the best of it...
what are the chances of it happening again?
really feel like kicking myself.
what are the chances of it happening again?
really feel like kicking myself.
Friday, May 30, 2008
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Saturday, May 24, 2008
leaving
just got to know that one of my colleague has tendered her resignation...
i knew it's a matter of time that she will go down that path, but didn't expect it to be so soon.
was rendered speechless momentarily as she was my supervisor when i was on placement.
in a way, she's more than just someone who monitors my progress, she's a mentor, a friend, and most of all, someone i look up to.
the coming friday will be her last day...
i don't know what to say to her...
such complex emotions...
i hope i don't cry...
i knew it's a matter of time that she will go down that path, but didn't expect it to be so soon.
was rendered speechless momentarily as she was my supervisor when i was on placement.
in a way, she's more than just someone who monitors my progress, she's a mentor, a friend, and most of all, someone i look up to.
the coming friday will be her last day...
i don't know what to say to her...
such complex emotions...
i hope i don't cry...
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