爱自己

there's nothing wrong with being nice to yourself, and loving yourself...

however, it becomes a little twisted when in the process of loving yourself, u overlooked the necessity to look out for those around you.

being immerse in your own world, and talking about yourself all time...

yes we already know how good you are... aren't you interested in anything else?



yet, i wonder if it's the effect of wanting to be loved, that you can't get it from others, so these people tend to make it up by loving themselves more, thus the vicious cycle of allowing the whole world know how much you love yourself, and despising people who yearn to be love by others.

probably doesn't make sense...

but this person i know told me that," people need others to love them, because they don't love themselves..."

to me that's bullshit...

it may be the desirable respond to people who are desperately looking for a partner or soul mate...

but not what a pragmatic person like me would consider as an acceptable respond in any other circumstances. i can't stand people who are OVERLY idealistic... i think it's really just a crap load of shit... (just my humble opinion, please don't quote me otherwise)

then again, we're all different, and on the same note, please don't think that the others should conform to the norms that you hold on to so dearly with your life...