not sure if i'm into this evolution and revelation of myself, but i'm starting to feel a change in the way i think and the response that follows.
the change is not drastic, yet i am able to feel the impact of it.
being the placater for the most part of my life, i feel that i often discredit myself by allowing my own views to be subdue by overpowering voices.
perhaps as time passes, i've also realised the redundancy of trying to please everyone but myself. time is obviously not in my favour, trying too hard in maintaining that status quo is not a pragmatic move for now.
despite what the others might think about me, an evaluation of my current position portrays myself as someone who lacks vigor.
wonder if this could also mean a progressive shift of my framework in relation to the way i live my life, that will potentially reap outcomes that are less demeaning for me as an individual.
my bling
Monday, June 23, 2008
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Friday, June 20, 2008
women are picky? think again...
it has been scientifically proven that men are capable of producing 300 million sperms in a day...
but
women produces only 1 egg a month...
but
women produces only 1 egg a month...
Thursday, June 19, 2008
personal space...
i realised that a lot of people are not aware of the importance of personal space...
for e.g. in crowded place; such as the train and the lifts.
don't stand so close can?
for e.g. in crowded place; such as the train and the lifts.
don't stand so close can?
Monday, June 16, 2008
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
爱自己
there's nothing wrong with being nice to yourself, and loving yourself...
however, it becomes a little twisted when in the process of loving yourself, u overlooked the necessity to look out for those around you.
being immerse in your own world, and talking about yourself all time...
yes we already know how good you are... aren't you interested in anything else?
yet, i wonder if it's the effect of wanting to be loved, that you can't get it from others, so these people tend to make it up by loving themselves more, thus the vicious cycle of allowing the whole world know how much you love yourself, and despising people who yearn to be love by others.
probably doesn't make sense...
but this person i know told me that," people need others to love them, because they don't love themselves..."
to me that's bullshit...
it may be the desirable respond to people who are desperately looking for a partner or soul mate...
but not what a pragmatic person like me would consider as an acceptable respond in any other circumstances. i can't stand people who are OVERLY idealistic... i think it's really just a crap load of shit... (just my humble opinion, please don't quote me otherwise)
then again, we're all different, and on the same note, please don't think that the others should conform to the norms that you hold on to so dearly with your life...
however, it becomes a little twisted when in the process of loving yourself, u overlooked the necessity to look out for those around you.
being immerse in your own world, and talking about yourself all time...
yes we already know how good you are... aren't you interested in anything else?
yet, i wonder if it's the effect of wanting to be loved, that you can't get it from others, so these people tend to make it up by loving themselves more, thus the vicious cycle of allowing the whole world know how much you love yourself, and despising people who yearn to be love by others.
probably doesn't make sense...
but this person i know told me that," people need others to love them, because they don't love themselves..."
to me that's bullshit...
it may be the desirable respond to people who are desperately looking for a partner or soul mate...
but not what a pragmatic person like me would consider as an acceptable respond in any other circumstances. i can't stand people who are OVERLY idealistic... i think it's really just a crap load of shit... (just my humble opinion, please don't quote me otherwise)
then again, we're all different, and on the same note, please don't think that the others should conform to the norms that you hold on to so dearly with your life...
说者无心，听者有意...
it's true how the tone of one's speech can be potentially fatal if not related appropriately to the person you are communicating with.
that's when a break down occur.
especially when one party has experienced the other party negatively before.
misinterpretation creeps in and become a feature of the conversation between the 2.
it's scary to see something like this happening right before your eyes and yet can do nothing about.
that's when a break down occur.
especially when one party has experienced the other party negatively before.
misinterpretation creeps in and become a feature of the conversation between the 2.
it's scary to see something like this happening right before your eyes and yet can do nothing about.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
an opportunity
only i didn't make the best of it...
what are the chances of it happening again?
really feel like kicking myself.
what are the chances of it happening again?
really feel like kicking myself.
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